Authoritative Style of Parenting

The reason why authoritative style of parenting (one types of parenting styles) is more likely to be successful than the other style because parents who apply the authoritative style set rules and limits, but explaining why they are necessary. Parents making rules with taking account of their children’s point of view. They communicate well and regularly with their children and encourage them to be independent.

Four Different Parenting Styles

From the expect point of view they have identify four different types of parenting styles. These styles are known as “authoritarian”, “authoritative”, “permissive” and “neglectful.” There are important differences between each of these styles, and there is one style considered ideal above all the others. We’ll review each one individually now so you will be able to understand which type of parenting styles is best for you and your child.

Authoritarian Style of Parenting

The authoritarian style of parenting is the ‘old, stereotypical style best described in phrases like “children should be seen and not heard” and “spare the rod, spoil the child.” Authoritarian parents expect a high degree of conformity and compliance from their children, and are more likely to use corporal punishment as discipline.
The problem with authoritarian parenting is that the ‘rules’ often change at the parent’s whim, so the child never truly know what is expected. One could describe the situation as ‘unfair’ and threatening. Many children raised by authoritarian parents live in a constant state of fear. They tend to display less self-confidence and are socially withdrawn.

Permissive Style of Parenting

Permissive parenting is typically characterized by a warm, loving relationship between parent and child, but is flawed by low expectations of behavior. In other words, the permissive parent is usually afraid to make demands on the child much less hold him to any standard.
Children raised by overly permissive parents tend to suffer from a lack of focus, immaturity and problems with emotional regulation.

Neglectful Style of Parenting

Neglectful parenting is best described as a step beyond “permissive” parenting. The neglectful parent may provide food and shelter, but is generally emotionally uninvolved in the child’s life. A good example of this would be parents who never ask their child questions about their day, their friends, homework, etc.. A neglected child may have serious issues going on outside the home, but the neglectful parent is never aware of them until something potentially tragic occurs.

Authoritative style of Parenting

This type of parent holds high expectations of the child’s behavior while allowing an open dialogue with the child about those expectations. Rules imposed on the child are fair and expressed clearly. The authoritative parent teaches the child about cause and effect, decision-making and self-sufficiency. Children raised in an authoritative environment have more self-confidence and initiative, are liked and respected by their peers and will be generally well-rounded adults. Out of the four different types of parenting styles, the authoritative style is considered ideal.