Reward Your Kids Good Behavior
March 31, 2008
Reward your kids for good behavior are an important motivation for young children. Most of the time children need an incentive to reinforce child good behavior. But parents have to take precaution when rewarding your children especially if parents rely on material or monetary rewards. This will procreate wrong expectations as such that the child hold their parents at ransom and demand material rewards otherwise the child will continue with their bad behaviors.
Reward your child for behavior that is appropriate for the situation. Some times a simple comment or hug will do. Comment such as “Well Done”, ” You Did Great”, “Keep It Up” so on … Parents have a greater roles to play and influence on your child behavior. The example you set is a standard your child embraces. For example if you can’t keep own room clean don’t expect your child to tidy and clean their room too. Parents should never compare children because every child is different.
So what is the right kind of rewards to your children? Another things parents also concern is what best rewards system to implement, to rewards on regular basis or case to case rewards system. There is no fixed rules that rewards system that parents have to follow. In some circumstance a simple praise of encouragement is all that your child needs. Well if you are adopting a rewards system at times here are some guidelines for rewarding your child.
Guidelines For Rewarding Your Child
- First of all you need to assess your child what types of rewarding is most appropriate with your kids. It is all really depend on your child personality on how receptive your child is. Reward your kids accordingly.
- Every home have it own family culture and philosophy. It is important to work out a range of rewards which are consistent implemented. As I mention before sometime a simply gesture such as word of praise or “Thank You’ will build up your child’s self esteem in a long run.
- What good behavior you want to instill in your child must correspond to the right rewards.
- Remember not to expect too much from your child. The goals you want your child to achieve must be realistic and achievable.
- Material and monetary rewards is a big NO NO.
- Reward good behavior quickly and often and don’t “accidentally” reward bad behavior. It is alright right to correct some bad behavior but use mild correction only.
So parents start now and plan early to bring out the best in your child. The result can be invaluable for your children in the long run. Remember when reward your kids, set a correct expectation and the appropriate rewards to it. Your child will have a right frame of mind what is the right thing to do and best of all motivated to do it.
Here a list of Home Reward Possibilities for Preschoolers
- Going to the park or playground
- Helping out in making food to eat
- Having a horsy ride by swinging on parent’s foot
- Talking into a tape recorder
- Playing with playdough
- Helping mom or dad
- Helping in to wash a car
- Bouncing on the bed
- Staying up late not till 10.30 pm
- Having a bubble bath
- Delaying a nap
- Going outside at night
- Swimming
- Going to a beach
- Having a special desert like ice cream
- Sitting in the front seat
- Playing with friends
- Listening to a bedtime story
- Being lifted into the air
- Playing games
- Doing a puppet play
- Going out for hamburgers or pizza
- Going someplace alone with dad or mom
- Having a longer time in the bathtub
- Going on a trip to the zoo
- Playing educational computer game
- Riding on a bicycle with dad or mom
- Playing in the sandbox
- Going for a picnic
- Riding a tricycle
- Getting a piggy-back ride
- Riding on dad’s shoulders
- Playing a game with parent(s)
- Watching a video
- Going to a movies
- Playing ball with Daddy
Book Reviews | Positive Discipline For Preschoolers
March 29, 2008
Raising young children is one of the most challenging tasks an adult will ever face. No matter how much you love your child, there will be inevitably causes a good deal of frustration, anger, and even desperation. You will be puzzled why does my four-year-old deliberately lie to me? Why won’t my three-year-old listen to me? Should I ever spank my child when he/she is disobedient? Parents thus overwhelmed and lose confidence and optimism to persevere in the challenge. Hence, this Positive Discipline For Preschoolers guide book over the years have come to trust that there is still hope for a better approach to better care for preschoolers. To influence them to become responsible, respectful and resourceful beings.You’ll find practical solutions from this book:
- Addressing issues with mastering sleeping, eating, and potty training.
- See misbehavior as an opportunity to teach non punitive discipline—not punishment.
- Instill valuable social skills and positive behavior inside and outside the home, parents will be taught how to use kind but firm methods that teach important life skills to raise your child.
- You will find some handy tips for application in the classroom to tackle behavioral challenges
- And much, much more!
Now completely updated to report the latest research in child development and learning, Positive Discipline for Preschoolers will teach you how to use methods to raise a child who is responsible, respectful, and resourceful. Preschoolers are never too young to learn desirable behavior and as parents you need to have a positive mindset and pick up tips from this book to help them to achieve that. The techniques the book outlines are useful for children of any age, start at the younger age the better.
This revised and updated third edition includes information from the latest research on neurobiology, diet and exercise, gender differences and behavior, the importance of early relationships and parenting, and new approaches to parenting in the age of mass media. Get Positive Discipline for Preschoolers: For Their Early Years–Raising Children Who are Responsible, Respectful, and Resourceful (Positive Discipline Library. Author Jane Ed.D. Nelsen, Cheryl Erwin, Roslyn Ann Duffy.
Pregnancy Videos | Third Trimester Of Pregnancy
March 26, 2008
Third trimester pregnancy videos. Here are the pregnancy education videos, videos on what going on inside your pregnant body. As you are approaching to give birth, get to know and practice more on what is been taught here. Pregnancy videos are wonderful to watch and learn because they give you a better picture into the different stages of pregnancy, and they share the joy of one mother’s journey from testing to birth. Pregnancy videos are a great resource for this type of information.
Seventh Month of Pregnancy Video
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Eighth Month of Pregnancy Video
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Pregnancy Videos | Second Trimester Of Pregnancy
March 26, 2008
Second trimester of pregnancy videos. Below are three pregnancy videos on what going on inside your pregnant body during your second trimester. I am really amaze of what I see and feel my baby inside my womb and what I can do to make my baby healthy.
Forth Month of Pregnancy Video
Forth Month Pregnancy pointers for newly expecting mother, it is important to read it closely and practice it. Most ignorance pregnant woman simply not aware of the consequences for getting a well good healthy baby.
Fifth Month of Pregnancy Video
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Sixth Month of Pregnancy
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Pregnancy Videos | First Trimester Of Pregnancy
March 25, 2008
Expecting new mother ever wonder what happen inside your body during your first trimester of pregnancy. Below are three pregnancy videos on what going on inside your pregnant body.
First Month of Pregnancy Video
Pregnancy pointers for newly expecting mother to know of during the first month of pregnancy. Most pregnant woman due to their ignorance did not practice it or not aware of it. This pregnancy pointers facts play an important role for getting a well good healthy baby.
Second Month of Pregnancy Video
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Third Month of Pregnancy
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